So It's allowed through the firewall, it's in the exclusion list in my windows defender and I STILL can't connect if I run as an admin. It works if I don't but the english patch I have seems to barely work if at all, not sure if that has anything to do with it, I'm just told I should always run as an admin.
EDIT: Problem has gotten worse. Doesn't work at all now, whether or not I run as an admin, launcher or not, I can't login at all