Okay. you may have spoken formally in the way you think you did. however it looks like you was being condescending.
And it shows in Contractz responses. it's simple that the misunderstanding was not cleared because neither of you presented clear opinions (you're slightly more guilty of this than he is but you both have done it) You asked for proof and such of where the money was going but was too general, Plus you have to admit as due to the recent thread no one is in the correct mindset to be 100% calm on this subject.
You "used power" which is just as bad if not worse than being childish, trying to '1-up' one another makes no progress. Meet as equals and discuss properly. And no one has to agree on everything (no one ever will) plus using over the top literature makes you sound snobby or egotistic when you normally wouldn't use that type of language.
Yes you're entitled to your own opinion, and it does not matter if he's new or not. and it very much does seem like your post was slightly geared to calling Daneos out as you don't trust him (which you should or you shouldn't play on his server that's governed by him and him only)
I can see where you're coming from in terms of saying you "felt the community needed this" but you did it at the absolute worst time. Anyone could have seen that really, as soon as one user goes off the rails for whatever reason someone else makes another thread saying what they think and it may be done with the best of intentions but the way it was written and as close to the other one as it was it looked bad (i'm not saying it is/was but the way in which you did it made it look as it was)
I'm trying not to criticize you (or anyone for that matter) Just stop taking everything so personally (you can say you aren't but it sure as hell looks like you are) and calm down. The whole community needs to calm down in all honesty. And like i said previously "Are there any more points either of you want to make? if so can you do it nicely and stop begin rude to one another."
If you can't do that then there's not really any more point to this thread. you said it yourself "it's a thread that encourages discussion on how we can improve as community." So in that retrospect do just that. stop trying to prove meaningless points and discuss civilly with one another.
Display MoreI've spoken as formally as one could, if I wanted to speak childish I could have easily done that as well.I expected criticism of my suggestions when I was initiating the thread. I didn't expect a personal attack.
I can be mature, but if someone refuses to understand a point, and accuses me of doing something I have not, ofc it will get annoying. There's no need for me to be this formal. Like I said before I can easily attack with childish insults, but I don't because that does not benefit this thread in any way. Instead I use the power of literature to prove my point.. which I've done multiple times. Contractz seems to not understand that.
Even so Contractz is new, it is not my fault he's been irritated by my post and is handling it in a bad way. After all, he does not realize my thread really holds no weight of importance for now. I'm just another casual and I'm entitled to my own opinion I don't need to be kind about it in anyway (But I chose to be). There's no need for him to shit talk my post based off the actions of others assume this post is spam and then proceed to call it a personal attack to Daneos.
I'm only bringing this up now because it seems about time the community needs it, and I just thought of the idea.
Clearly you can see a growing number of people questioning the authenticity of Daneos. I suggested these ideas so he can prove to them that they can trust him. I never accused him of anything.
This is a possible solution for the community that I thought of and FELT like sharing.